The Book!

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It’s officially official, my book has an approved title…”Expecting Jewish!” I can’t quite believe we have reached this stage in the publishing process but it is finally here. I have all of my editor’s notes in my hand and now it’s just up to me to make the final corrections (well and up to my baby to nap so I can actually do them lol). Thank you, actually HUGE THANK YOU to all of you who have been so encouraging and supportive on this marathon of a journey. I wrote this book with the intention of helping women who like me didn’t have the knowledge or understanding of just where Judaism can fit into pregnancy – especially if you’re not all that observant. Through a year of research and over 50 interviews with rabbis, community leaders and real moms I learned that the Jewish tradition is bursting with a wealth of ritual, prayer, customs and experiences to help women along this miraculous life event. Stay tuned for the release date this ❄️ WINTER ❄️. Until then it’s time to focus on edits and cover design 🥰! 💙 💙 💙 #judaism #jewish #jewishmom #twounderthree #toddlermom #jewishwomen #jewishauthor #jewishauthors #authorsofinstagram #author #publishing #writersofinstagram #writerscommunity #writinginspiration #jewishbooks #jewishlearning #pregnancy #ExpectingJewish

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So today is a big #milestone today because I hit 50K on my book draft 🎉🌟🎉 and that was the minimum word count I wanted to get to before starting to edit and polish which could almost double the draft size (but hopefully not!) 😂. I was actually writing one of my favorite sections of the book when I hit it and thought I would share it with you. In the chapter about preparing for what it means to be a mom I give my personal Top 5️⃣ list of what to me makes a good mom (and a good #Jewishmom) so here it is (the unedited version) let me know what’s on your list! #ShabbatShalom 💐 💕1️⃣ Always be kind. No matter how many times you’ve asked your child to please please get in their carseat, no matter how many times you’ve counted to “five” before you have to leave the park, not matter how many times you’ve pleaded to the night sky to just let this baby fall asleep, they are so very little and the world is so very big and they are trying their best just to figure it out, just like you are, so try to always be kind. 💕2️⃣ Be silly. A baby will pretty much laugh at anything and being open, relaxed and just silly is a way of showing that they can trust you and you are safe together. 💕3️⃣ Live in the moment. Children are the absolute best at this and adults with phones glued to their palms are the absolute worst. The truth is you won’t be building lego towers or having tea parties for long, these little games are infinitely important to your child and if you don’t participate in them when you have the chance, that chance will be gone forever (dramatic much? I know! 💕4️⃣ Share a love of learning. Wherever we go, from the grocery store to a stroller walk we are always learning. I talk to my son about what we see and share everything I know with him. I know he’ll get the basics in kindergarten but I love telling him something new and hearing him share it back to me. 💕5️⃣ Share a love of Judaism. From Shabbat times to holiday celebrations I invest my time and energy in sharing Jewish activities with him because I believe it’s a gift. Wherever his faith goes as he grows at least I’ve given him the option to believe in something bigger. 💕💙💕 #jewishmom #jewishauthor #ExpectingJewish

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Can’t even believe I get to share this news with you guys today…MY BOOK IS GETTING PUBLISHED!!!!! If you’ve been following along here for a while you’ll know I have been working away at a book I feel extremely passionate about for almost a year now. I began writing it never for one second believing I could actually get it published. Not because I didn’t believe in the idea but because as a first time writer without a literary agent or connections in the biz it is really really REALLY hard. I was excited to self publish the book and after deciding to commit to this project I spent every spare moment I had writing. Mostly at night and the weekends but finding time and energy was not hard because it was truly a labor of love. When I had a pretty solid draft a few months ago a friend put me in touch with the author of “Jewish Daughter Diaries: True Stories of being Loved Too Much by Our Moms” Rachel Ament and that conversation changed everything for me. She taught me about rejection and how EVERY writer, no matter how brilliant and talented they are have to face hundreds of rejections before getting a yes from a publisher. There’s even a goal in the writing world of aiming for 1,000 rejections a year because that means you’re putting your writing out there enough to get enough positive responses. I had been too afraid of rejection to even try before that conversation. I also was SO inspired by @missmayim and her thoughtful strong opinions as an author to find my voice and stick to it. So, here I am, with a signed book deal in my hand (well, on my computer) and a TON of rejection emails there too knowing that as Chloe from Dance Moms said when she won her Teen Choice Award 😂😍😂 “to anyone who has ever been told that they can’t do it, that they shouldn’t do it, or that they aren’t good enough, ignore it, do it anyways and prove them wrong.” HUGE thanks to everyone who has cheered me on in this endeavor, I will be sharing updates on here as they come! #writer #booksarecool #jewishmom #jewishbooks #expectingjewish

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HUGE MEGA EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENT!!!! Ok that's a lot of adjectives but I am super super super excited to let y'all know that I am writing a book!!!! An actual, like…book! It's been a dream and passion project of mine for, well forever, to publish a book 📚 and 2018 is the year of #makingithappen. I am HALFWAY done with the first draft which is a big step and I'm too excited to wait any longer to let the secret out. In my 'day job' I'm a writer but I don't always get to write about exactly what I want to write about, so this is a big first for me in many ways. Stay tuned for more details…but I can tell you that it's a non-fiction guide to Judaism and Pregnancy and we are hoping to hit a release date this FALL 🍁🍂!! And thanks for already being the most supportive and inspirational bunch!! 💕 Also I just posted a new video – a little declutter in the kitchen so check it out if you like! (link in bio!) … #jewishmom #bignews #excitingtimes #mommylife #writersofinstagram #jewishbooks #jewishwriters #writinglife #writingabook #instamom #youtubemom #ExpectingJewish

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